Campus Dating: 5 types of ladies in university relationships
A university is a school of higher learning and, as such, not made for children. The standard age for one to enrol in university education is from 18years and above. It is believed that anyone in the university should be an adult as an 18year old is considered an adult.
In the university, relationship and dating isn't a new thing. It is not rare to see partners, preferably called 'love couples', hanging out at different spots in the school environment engaging in different forms of romance.
When you visit school campuses, you will see for yourself different forms of relationships young ladies are into.
While campus relationships mostly involve both male and female gender, this article will focus more on ladies and the types of relationship they get involved in.
There are five categories of ladies on every campus that one must encounter when it comes to dating.
1. Ladies in 'friends with benefit' relationship
These are the type of ladies who go into a relationship for the benefit they will derive
This set is not hidden once you are on a university campus. These are the type of ladies who go into a relationship for the benefit they will drive from their partners, such as money, food, pass marks, and even assignment writing and submission.
In some Nigeria universities, especially Federal universities, hunger is considered to be a norm, especially during the exam period.
During this period, the semester is coming to an end, so you might have exhausted all your foodstuffs and money. This is when you will know that desperate and hungry female students can do anything in order not to stay hungry.
Some may decide to hook up with one rich guy who has been asking them out for a while. The purpose of the relationship isn't for love but to gain money and food, which is the most important for the individual at that moment.
What of the 'Olodos' and lazy students who will never do any assignment even if they are giving all the time in the world. This set of ladies will single out the intelligent guys in their departments, hook up with them and try to establish a relationship so the guy can be their helper in times of 'intellectual' need.
Some of them go as far as seducing those guys. Once an assignment is given, the guy will do his, and that of the girlfriend and the girl will pay at the end with good sex.
Some other ladies that fall under this category are the ones that date their lecturers for a pass mark. Some students that date their lecturers do that for the benefit, not for love, so that they can at least get a pass mark after the exam.
2. Ladies in polygamous relationships
This group do not have just a single relationship. They are known for their multiple relationships.
Another set of ladies that indulge in a campus relationship are the polygamous group. This group do not have just a single relationship. They are known for their multiple relationships.
These ones change men like bathroom slippers. While you are still wearing a pair of bathroom slippers, these ladies must have changed up to 3 boyfriends.
This group of ladies can be found on any university campus. They are never satisfied with a single relationship.
This set of female students are the ones that hop from one party to another, from one club to another, as those places create avenues to meet more men and make more relationships.
Some of them enjoy this polygamous relationship just for fun, while others engage in it due to what they benefit from it.
3. Ladies in faithful relationships
These ones have only one guy that visits them often and on.
In the midst of the cheaters and polygamous relationships, there are still ladies in the university campus that are faithful girlfriends.
These ones have only one guy that visits them often and on. They showcase the guy to the whole campus. They are always seen together holding hands, reading together and doing everything together.
These are the most loyal girlfriends on campus. They like keeping every other guy at arm's length. They hardly give out their numbers to the opposite sex and will always define it in a vivid term for their admirers that they are already in a relationship and do not intend having any other one.
They act like they are already married to their boyfriends. You see them act like the patron saint of long term relationships and take it upon themselves to give everbody both solicitated and unsolicitated relationship advice.
4. Ladies in long distance relationships
She always has to cancel plans because of a Skype date with her boyfriend.
On the university campus, one must see ladies in long distant relationships. They always have to cancel plans because of a Skype date with their boyfriends. They usually fall asleep on Skype together, which is kind of cute, unless you are their roommate.
The unending video call, to an extent, will become so annoying for the roommates as they will find it hard to concentrate on themselves. The incessant "I miss you, baby" coming from the other end where the Skype call is going on won't you do a thing.
Fo this set of ladies in a relationship, once you complain about the continuous video calls, you are deeply in trouble as they don't like taking advice once it concerns their relationship.
5. Ladies in a 'couple' kind of relationship
These are the group of ladies that are living permanently with a guy in school
This is the group of ladies that come to school but left their hostels permanently and parked into a guy's house. They end up playing a wifely role to the guy. They cook, clean and do the guys laundry.
Some of them turn out to call the guys their husbands and do everything to protect them from other girls' eyes. But unfortunately, it seems that those ladies in this kind of campus relationship are even often cheated on more.
Every guy needs space once in a while, but in a situation where their girlfriends' has parked into their house, the girl's presence will most likely suffocate the guy, no space to miss the girlfriend, nothing at all.
As they normally say that over-familiarity breeds contempt. Another saying goes thus, 'distance makes the heart grow fonder'.
Nigerians refer to over-familiarity as 'see-finish'. See-finish usually sets in in this type of relationship. It gets boring, and that's why some of these couple campus relationships end in tears, sadly.
You can use the comment section to add other categories of ladies in a campus relationship you have seen or witnessed in your school or elsewhere. The comment section is open for you.